Dear Lipstick Mystic,
Thank you for the free reading. I read a reading you did for a woman about finances and the symbol of the broken necklace and copied your "How to Overcome Poverty Thoughtforms" article.
I am divorced and had an on again/off again relationship with someone I dearly love. What do you see for me in the field of finances and this relationship? If these are too many questions, the main one is finances. Thank you again.
-- D.L.
Dear D. L.,
The symbol which appeared in the tea leaves made my jaw drop. At first, I thought I was imagining it. Then I looked at it more carefully, and its shape was still crystal clear.
The leaves took on the shape of. . . a gift box!

The leaves were laid out in a faint box shape with four distinct corners. And at the top was a mass of leaves which looked just like the pretty ribbon you’d find piled on top of a gift.
I wish I had a digital camera so I could have scanned this image for you. I’ve heard rumors that Santa might be bringing one, so hopefully I can include images with my tea leaf readings up ahead. I don’t know how well they’ll photograph, though.
Anyway, think of this image as a momentary psychic “snapshot” of some of the energies you are dealing with now in your life, especially around the issues of finances and this particular romantic relationship. I meditated before I did your reading and was given the guidance that it was okay to ask both questions in your reading. So my focus was, “What is D.L.’s best path both financially and personally?”
The Meaning of a Gift Box Symbol in a Tea Leaf Reading
Here is the interpretation given to me by my guidance:
To unlock the happiest, most progressive energy in your life and open yourself up to receiving greater abundance on all levels, meditate on the image of the gift box. It might be helpful to find a piece of artwork that you can copy to help you focus on this symbol. I’ve included one above that you can look at.
The gift box means several inter-related things. As a larger symbol, the gift box means that good things are on their way and that the spiritual homework you have been doing is destined to pay off. So printing out the "How to Overcome Poverty Thoughtforms" article I wrote and thinking about the points raised in it was a good idea. And reading books and listening to teachers who promote prosperity consciousness will help you, too.
The gift box symbol appearing in the leaves is great confirmation that you ARE putting yourself on a path of prosperity and abundance. Even if you haven’t won the lottery yet, you are going to start seeing synchronicities and positive developments in the financial part of your life. I sense a combination of things here. Number one, you could experience an unexpected windfall of some kind soon, where a chunk of money you didn’t expect comes through. Number two, I also sense that you are going to see a gradual increase in your monthly income throughout each month of 2006. So good for you – you’ll be seeing positive results on the material plane before long. Just keep attuning yourself to the energies of prosperity.
Secondary Meaning of this Tea Leaf Symbol
The gift box also provides another level of meaning. Your reading is showing that, in order to open up to the abundance the Universe wants to give you, you need to UNLEASH YOUR GIFTS UPON THE WORLD.
Ask yourself, what would I be doing if I were in my dream career? What gifts and talents would I like to share with others? How might I capitalize on my natural abilities, those talents which give me joy, and make money using them?
These are the questions you should start meditating on. See if some wisdom surfaces about how you might try something new, perhaps part-time at first, that could earn you extra money in a happy and fulfilling way. It’s okay to start small, doing this new thing for just a few hours a week. But please consider the possibility that you can create a happy, prosperous dream job for yourself over time if you honor the God-given talents that live within you.
In short, if you want to become more financially abundant, open up your gift box! Your gift box, as represented here in the reading, is the sum of all of your psychic tools, interpersonal skills, creative talents, and business acumen that you have already been developing throughout your life. With a little more focus, study, and determination, these capabilities can become stronger and you’ll start seeing how using them can bring you more money.
More About Common Financial Blocks
Sometimes people manifest financial limitation because they are caught up in believing that the only way to earn more money is to work longer hours at a job they already find depressing. So they really don’t WANT more money because, to them, the only way it can arrive is if they slave away at something they hate. This belief structure sets up a weird blockage in their auric field that is like a financial straitjacket.
I see this energy configuration in a lot of people I’ve done healing work with. It’s like the channel of energy within the aura which should allow that person to receive abundance is all strangled or constricted. Do some prayer and reflection on freeing up these constrictions within your own auric field. Release them to a loving Higher Power. Ask your spiritual guidance to remove these blockages. And also keep opening up to new thoughtforms and beliefs about how money can flow to you.
On a mental level, do some daydreaming about ways to earn income. Keep brainstorming. Consider small changes or whimsical changes, too. It’s good to shake things up a little! Step beyond your usual routine. Embrace a feeling of fun and adventure.
Sometimes, people will pick up a morning paper route to earn a little extra money each month. Or you might have a friend who would appreciate some help with their business for a few hours a week, and they’d pay you a good hourly rate. Think about all that is within your sphere of influence, all of the opportunities, both large and small, that you might experiment with in the new year.
The gift box image is prompting you to take action in a joyful and playful way, embracing the bounty and the positive surprises that the Universe intends for you to experience.
The Gift Box Symbol as Applied to Soulmate Relationships
There is a third layer of meaning with the gift box symbol, and this one applies to the romantic relationship you mentioned.
When we have a soulmate romance that causes us to feel deep levels of connection of a type that blinds us with its intensity and power, this relationship is a gift. But it’s not always a gift about the particular person.
Some soulmates move in and out of our lives because they are spiritual catalysts, messengers who are meant to wake us up to the great depths of love we are capable of experiencing.
This doesn’t always mean we are supposed to end up with that person in a long-term relationship. Sometimes this person is simply a messenger of things to come.
Soulmates can awaken us to the incredible powers of love that live within us so one day, when the time is right, we can experience that in a long-term committed partnership with someone.
But it may not be meant to happen with the first person who triggers these feelings in you, no matter how powerful your connection is with them.
Now, it’s always possible that the relationship you mentioned will be reawakened. So I don’t mean to say it can NEVER happen.
But the symbol of the gift box is urging you to look closely at all of the spiritual gifts you have been given throughout the experience of this relationship. . .gifts you have already been blessed to receive. . .gifts you will remain grateful for even if you never see the person again.
That’s the larger message here in your reading. Realize how blessed you are to have felt that depth of love and passion with someone incredible, to have had that with someone your heart recognizes as being part of your “soul tribe.”
I know, it can be hard to believe that you could experience that level of love with someone else when you have been blasted with such powerful energies surrounding that one particular person.
But you can! You are more than capable of magnetizing another member of your soul tribe as a romantic partner. Don't live in a poverty of possibility. Opening up to abundance on all levels means realizing that there is an unlimited supply of good relationships and rewarding experiences available to you.
So as you think about the gifts you were given through this earlier relationship, hold on to the possibility that God brought this person into your life to awaken the deep love that lives within you. . .and that maybe, just maybe, that’s the main gift this relationship was destined to provide. It might not be a gift of a future with this person. It could be more of a gift of feeling, emotion, and spiritual awakening.
The gifts you experienced with this person have changed you forever. Now you’ll recognize what a deep, soulmate level connection is like the next time you experience it!
And my sense is that you will experience it again. So try not to be so emotionally attached to this person that you forget that you CAN experience that level of love with somebody else who is equally extraordinary and equally connected to you on all levels – physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
I see a lot of positive changes and tons of personal and financial growth as the main themes in your reading. So look for 2006 to unleash a stream of good things and great experiences. It's time to open up that gift box!
Thanks very much for letting me read for you.
--- Lipstick Mystic