How Do I Reach My Far-Away Love?

Dear Lipstick Mystic,

I’m not sure how to pose this as a bone-fide question but. . .I'm in love (surprise,) and it's been due to meeting someone quite special here in net-land…who also happens to be a very complicated, special woman. She is far away from me and in an entirely different social setting. . .a whole different world actually. My question is. . .

"How on God's green earth do I make her see I do understand her?"

Thanks for hearing me out. . .and if possible. . .read my tea leaves, coffee grounds. . .whatever works!

-- Sincerely, L.

Dear L.,

First, thanks for sending the neat teacup graphic. I’m posting it here for all to enjoy.

Now, onto your reading. When I laid out the leaves this time, the image that showed up for me was the puppy. (Not the dog, but the puppy. The puppy image is smaller and looks, well, more like a puppy than a full-grown dog image.) The leaves were near the rim of the cup.

The puppy image hints at someone who will succeed in the situation if they cultivate an energy of likeability, accessibility, and a sense of play. The more helpful you can be to this lady, the more receptive and understanding, the more she will notice your loyalty and start to trust you more. The puppy also implies a transparency, an openness that engenders trust. So instead of manipulating, withholding information, or being a calculating type in this situation, ditch the concealment strategy and just be open and honest. Also, the silly, fun energy of the puppy will also be good for you here. Express your sense of humor, your appreciation for the whimsical, and this will always brighten her day. Over time, this warmth that you display has every chance of reaching this woman’s heart. But try not to have an agenda at this point.

You know how a puppy just LOVES LOVES LOVES you, no matter what? His master can do no wrong, because the puppy is just this big ball of adoration. That’s how the tea leaves are advising you to be. Express your natural affection and warm-heartedness, keep things light and loving, and you’ll increase the probability of entering this woman’s world in a more meaningful and intimate way.

Practice unconditional love, and you’ll have a good experience, no matter what. Soulmates always teach us the lessons of love, whether they are romantic soulmates, family members, “enemies,”or pets. This sounds like the perfect opportunity to practice this level of spiritual mastery, and see what happens.

I, for one, wish you lots of yummy dog biscuits, not to mention true love!

–Lipstick Mystic

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